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| My 485 got approved today but my wives and sons did not...Can someone help me |
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skgannisshan:
Don't worry too much about it. Hope you will take this in the right spirit.
People are waiting for their approvals in EB2 and EB3 for many years and now a days even EB1B and EB1A are also taking a long time.
Since you are in EB1C from India, your employment is either based in India or some other country other than US (other wise you won't be qualified for EB1C).
It is really unfair when I hear that some guy who just comes and goes here once in a blue moon are getting approvals where people like me/us are spending our lives here and even in EB1B/A are not getting approvals.
In such an unfair system and situation people tend to show their frustrations especially when some one asks why my son is not getting approvals.
Think about it: Since you already have your green card, what are the implications if your wife/son didn't get their GC. For all practical purpose there are no implications.
Your son don't need a GC, your wife don't need a GC (unless she is planning to divorce from you) if she is in EAD (only thing is that you may have to renew this every 2 years, but in 2 years she will get her GC). She can change as many jobs as she want.
eg: I have applied in EB1B still waiting for my I-140, forget about I-485. You probably don't know the struggle we are facing in our lives. My wife is working in another state and therefore currently I am a single dad with my son. It is not a joke to do a demanding job when you are alone with your kid.
I am not even waiting for my I-485 approval, I am just want my I-140.
Imagine that a lot of people like me are in this country for around 10 years (came for studies etc) and still waiting for their permanent residency. Mean time a guy from India or any other country who just visit here is getting their approvals when others are watching like fools.
I agree that everything in life is not fair for everybody.
The frustration is nothing about you, but when some one makes some silly comments, people get agitated whether it is wrong or right.
So take it easy and enjoy your freedom by having the GC and just bare with these kinds of comments.
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