I'm sorry that you got an RFE too. I don't know the details of my RFE yet. I've been told that USCIS usually shares the reason(s) for the RFE via standard mail directly to the immigration attorneys who filed the case. Standard mails can take upto 7 business days or so to reach the attorney's office. Once your attorneys get to know the reason(s) for the RFE, they'll hopefully share it with you. Good luck and let me know what RFE reasons they gave on your application.