Hi Lia,
So your AP was supposedly mailed on Oct 24 and your husband's on Nov 7 and it's Nov 15 today.
Now, my AP and my wife's AP were approved on Oct 4 and they were both received by the lawyer on Oct 10...
Possible explanations:
(1) Worst case scenario: they are not actually approved. My lawyer (top lawyer) has very rarely seen cases where the online status said "Approved" but they were actually pending. I think the chance is like 0.01%... but I'd take an InfoPass (just type "infopass" in your browser) to ask an officer. If you don't live in NY or CA or some beautiful but busy area, you should be able to schedule one quickly...
(2) USCIS' mailroom is slow on sending stuff out. My AP and my wife's AP were approved in Vermont (see "Notes" on my profile on how they actually ended up there), and VSC was blazingly fast. Maybe NSC just sucks...
(3) They got lost in the mail. Super-small chance, but...
(4) The lawyer. How's s/he in general? On top of things? My lawyer happens to be super-nice; a colleague of mine, however, has this lawyer who responds to email only when it's raining outside (you catch my translation...) and then says "I still need to do some data entry procedures here" when he's asked "Did you get my AP?".
So, bottom line... take an InfoPass, or failing that, call 1-800-375-5283, press 1, 2, 2, 6, 1, receipt #, 1, 3, 4 (the "POJ method", google it up) and speak to an officer, make sure it's really approved. Then, don't know, either USCIS' NSC mailroom sucks, or UPS/ USPS sucks, or the lawyer sucks... :-(
Hope you'll get it really soon now. Bafta mare, hai ca pana la urma tre' sa reusim! ("Best of luck, we'll win eventually" for non-Romanian speakers).
1) USCIS' mailroom did not actually send